【Why don't you???】もっとかっこ悪いところ見せちゃったらどう?Why Don't You... Show an Unattractive Side of Yourself?





Why Don't You... 

もっとかっこ悪いところ見せちゃったらどう?

Show an Unattractive Side of Yourself?

you can read this post in English here


どうもこの国の人間は
体裁ばかりを整えようと必死に生きちゃってるのよね

人にバカにされたくないという一心で
やりたくもないレースを走り抜いちゃったり
幸せじゃないのに「幸せです」とか言っちゃったり

自分の弱さを隠すために、人のことバカにして
悪く言ってみたり(あれ?これちょっと違う?)

仕事が冴えない分、玉の輿との結婚に必死になってみたり
暇な主婦になるのは嫌だから必死に子供つくってみたり?

めっちゃ弱いのに強がってみたり

なんだかやっぱりちぐはぐなのよ

でもさ、どうせ蓋を開けてみれば、

昼間は余裕ぶってても、家で1人になると不安で
ベッドで体育座りしちゃって、寝れなくなっちゃ自分がいるんでしょ

成功者っぽくビジネスやってるいいけど、全然儲かってない現実があるんでしょ

イケてる会社に転職して、かっこつけてるけど
自分がやりたいことじゃないって気づいちゃってる自分とかもいるんでしょ

隣に女が(男?)いなくて寂しくて泣いちゃう夜とかあるんでしょ


そういうのさ、全部見せちゃえばいいじゃない
なんで人前だと、真逆なことしちゃうのよ?

まあずっと弱音言ってるような人とは誰も一緒にいたくないけどね
自分の本質、弱いとこ、かっこ悪いはどんどん見せていくべきだと思うのよ

何回か言ってるけど、いつもイケイケドンドンで
悩みもなくて、毎日サイコーなんて人の人生はちっとも魅力的じゃないわよ
(まあ、それはそれで素晴らしいけどね)

悩んで悩んで、膝かかえて寝れない日も
うまく行かなくて、自分クリティサイズしちゃう日も
どうにも我慢できなくて昼からこっそり酒煽っちゃう時があったって
いいじゃない、人間なんだから

なんで生かされてるか分からないこの世で生きて行くのは
時に、誰だって辛くなる時あんのよ

でもね、それを強がって隠そうとするから、
ちぐはぐで病気になっちゃったりすんのよ

見せちゃいなさいよ
みんな共感してくれるわよ
その弱さとかっこわるさはあんただけのものじゃなくて
みんな持ってるんだからさ

まあ、弱点は見せ所っていうのもあるのよ
だいたいはあんたの才能が大きく開く前か少し後ね

いらない強がりはやめて
もっとかっこ悪いところ見せちゃったらどう?


How about showing an unattractive side of yourself?
I don't know why it is that the people of this country live their lives desperately trying to keep up appearances.
Just because of the will to not be made fools by others, they run a race in which they don't want to participate and tell everybody they're happy, when they aren't.
In order to disguise their own weaknesses they make fools out of people, or talk badly about others (hey, isn't that missing the mark?)
To compensate for lack of satisfaction at work, they desperately marry into wealthy families and because they don't want to turn into bored housewives, they desperately make babies?
They are extremely weak, but they try to put on a bold front. Yes, they are definitely odd.
But if you open the lid anyway, you see that sometimes you slack at home during the day, but you get anxious being alone in the house, right?
You conduct yourself as if business is successful, but the reality is that you're not making any profits, right?
You move to a successful company to look better, but you yourself notice before long that it's nothing that you want to be doing, right?
There's no woman (or man) beside you, you're so lonely that sometimes you cry at night, right?
You know, it's OK to show all of that, so why do you behave exactly the opposite in front of others?
True, nobody wants to be around someone who's always whining, but I think you should get used to showing your real self, your weak side and your unattractive side too.
I've said this several times, but the life of someone that's always happy-go-lucky, without a care in the world, one who's always on top of the game, isn't attractive one bit (well, of course I think that in itself it may be great).
On days when you are distressed and worried, hugging your knees and can't sleep;
On days when nothing goes well and you criticize yourself;
On days when you can't control yourself and you sneak a quaff of drink;
It's OK, you're only human!
Living in this world, into which we aren't sure why we were born, each one of us experiences a time of hardship.
But, you know, exactly because you try to be strong and hide it, you get some strange disease.
Show the world, people will empathize with you.
Weakness and unattractive traits are not yours alone, everyone's got them.
It's true what they say, weaknesses are also an opportunity to make a display, roughly before or after your talent opens wide.
So, stop putting on an act, a bluff.
How about showing an unattractive side of yourself? 

MAHO JULIA TAKAISHI

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