【Why don't you?】魅力的な人に出会ってみたらどう？Why Don't You... Meet An Attractive Person?

Why don't you?
魅力的な人に出会ってみたらどう？
「Why Don't You... Meet An Attractive Person?」


You can read 「Why don't you create your own identitiy」in English HERE

「ああ、つまんないなー。何か面白いことないかなー」

ってつい呟いちゃうあなたの周りには魅力的な人はいないはずよ

毎月何度か巡ってくる同じ友達とのローテーション

対して変わらない近状報告（ここでどちらかが変わると、激しく嫉妬とかになるのよね。これがグループになるともっとタチ悪いの。怖いわ）

冴えない会話。（だいたい男と、仕事の話？愚痴？）

冴えないお店。（ルーティーンになっちゃうと、お店選びまで雑になんのよ）

冴えない格好。（だれきった友情ほど見た目に気を使うこともなくなんのよ）

あああ、わたしの日常冴えない！！！！！

なんていう人は魅力的な人に出会ってみたらどう？

魅力的な人はね、有名人とか人気者っていう分かりやすいもんじゃないわよ

（人の意見ばっかフォローしてんじゃないわよ）

あなたの心を心底ワクワクさせてくれる

あなたの知らない世界を知っている人だったり

あなたがしたこともない経験をしている人だったり

あなたが見たことのない景色を見た人だったり

そういう人の話は面白いわよ

知らないことを知るのはいくつになってもワクワクするのよ

どんな人にワクワクするか分かんないっていう感度がにぶってる人は

外国人の方はどうかしら

彼らは育った環境から、価値観、日本という国を見る視点まで

全部違うわよ

今の時代ネット上とかで世界観を表現してる人沢山いるから

そういうとこから探してもいいんじゃない

ただ、あんたがまるっきり冴えない女だったら誰も会ってくれないけどね

（世の中は厳しいわね）

なんでもいいから何か話せるトピックを用意しなさい

自分が好きなものでいいのよ

それもないなら、心遣いよ！

会ってもらう人を徹底的にもてなしなさい

素敵なお店を調査しまくって予約して

一番上質な服を来て、

何か小さな送りものでもしたらどう？

手紙でも添えて

魅力は伝染するの

そういう人に会うことが、脳を刺激して、自分自身も教養を広げたり

話しながらも相手の魅力的なところを真似したりすんのよ

そうすると自分も自然に魅力的な人間になってくのよ

安心と怠惰の月一同窓会はしばらくお休みして

魅力的な人に出会ってみたらどう？

"Ahhhh, I'm so bored. Is there nothing interesting going on?"

If that is what you're whispering to yourself then you must not be surrounded by attractive people. 

The rotation of the same friends you see a few times a month, reports of their recent state of affairs, which haven't changed very much (but if their situation has changed, you feel violently jealous). If you're in a group, then your position is even worse. Scary.

Dull conversations (usually men and work? Some bitching?)...

Boring shops (if you do that as a routine even going shopping isn't a diversion)...

Dull looks (when your friendship slackens so does the amount of attention you pay to looks).

For people who say "Ahhh, my everyday life is so boring!!!" How about meeting an attractive person?

By attractive I don't mean something obvious like someone famous or popular (because I don't follow other people's opinions).

I mean...

Someone who excites you to the bottom of your heart;

Someone who knows a world that you don't know;

Someone who's experienced things you haven't;

Someone who has seen views you've never seen;

This kind of person has stories that are interesting; it's always exciting to learn things you didn't know.

For those of you whose sense of what's interesting is a little dull, how about meeting a foreigner? I mean someone who can entice your interest: starting from where they grew up, their values, their point of view on Japan, everything is different.

In this day and age there are so many people on the Internet expressing their views so you can start looking there, unless you yourself are a completely dull woman whom no one will want to know (the world is a tough place).

Whatever is fine, just find a topic you can have a conversation about. If you have nothing like that either, be thoughtful!

The ones who agree to meet you, entertain them!

Make a thorough survey of nice places to meet and make reservations.

Wear your best clothes, how about even giving them a little present with a card attached? 

Attractiveness is contagious. Meeting an attractive person stimulates the brain and you begin to broaden your horizons. 

As you converse, try and imitate the attractive trait in your partner so you will become an attractive person yourself.

How about giving your safe, idle monthly alumni gatherings a break and instead meet an attractive person?