【Why don't you???】変なポジティブ思考はやめて、真剣に悩んだらどう？Why Don't You... Stop Having Twisted Positive Thoughts and Start Thinking Seriously?

Why don't you?

変なポジティブ思考はやめて、真剣に悩んだらどう？

Why Don't You... Stop Having Twisted Positive Thoughts and Start Thinking Seriously?

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この星の人間は、自分でじっくり考えるってことをしないわよね

いつも人に答えを求めて、少しでも悩むべき時間をごまかすのよ

はっきり言うわ

人に教わる答えなんかに意味はないのよ

あんたはその人じゃないんだから

あなたとその人が一体の人間なら分かるけれど

あなたはあんたの個人、単体であって

勝手に他人をあんたに連続させてんじゃないわよ

自分で悩んで悩んで、答えがでるまで悩み抜きなさいよ

他人の言葉とか自己啓発本にばっか頼ってんじゃないわよ

あんたはどの道を生きてんのよ？

「いつまでも答えがでない、苦しい」とか言っんじゃないわよ

そこで、また他人に流されちゃってどうすんのよ？

わたしができるアドバイスはひとつ

悩んで、悩んで、悩んで、悩んで、悩み抜きなさい

頭がはげちゃっても、辛くて死にそうでも悩むのよ

自分の答えにたどり着くまで

あんたはただでさえ今まで人の価値観で生きてきてるんだから

自分自身になるのが辛いのは当たり前よ

分かる？悩むことに意義があるのよ。考えることに

まわりの中途半端な励ましとか当てにすんじゃないわよ

つまんない飲み会とか酒でごまかすんじゃないわよ

頭が禿げそうなほどに悩んだ先には、

あんただけの答えが待っていて、

ものすごいエネルギーが備わってんのよ

そしたら楽よ

信じる方向に爆発させるだけ

長い人生１年や２年、ずーっと悩んでてもどうってことないわよ

あなただけの答えに行き着くことが重要なの

自分自身の問題をごまかすのはやめて

真剣に悩んだらどう？

The people of this planet don't think carefully and deliberately by themselves; they always seek answers from others and cheat themselves of having to agonize... even a bit.

I won't mince words.

There's no point in learning from someone else's answer because you are not that person.

I'd understand if you and that other person were two people in one body but you are your own individual self and you stand alone. It's not like that other person has willfully stuck himself or herself upon you and is a continuation of you. Worry, agonize by yourself, completely think it over until you reach an answer.

Don't just rely on other people's words and self-help books: what kind of a life are you leading?

Don't say "The answer won't come, it's tough." At that point, what's going to happen if you pass it on to others again?

I only have one piece of advice that I can give. Worry, agonize, dwell on it, think about it until you're all thought-out. Even if all of your hair falls out and it's so tough you're almost dying, keep worrying until you arrive at your own answer.

As it is, you've already lived your life according to other people's values, so naturally it's going to be tough to be yourself.

Understood? There is meaning in worrying. In thinking it over, don't depend on half-baked words of encouragement from those around you. Don't fake it with boring drinking sessions and alcohol. 

Your answer is waiting for you beyond that point when almost all of your hair falls out from thinking. That answer will give you a lot of strength.

Then it's easy. You just have to set off in the direction of your beliefs.

It's not a case of taking a year or two of your long life to constantly worry. The important thing is that you arrive at your very own answer.

Stop avoiding your problems; why not worry about them seriously?